How can I recognize times have changed, <br />And so have I? <br />I had been the kind of person that thought, <br />Being of service to my fellowmen... <br />Was a duty and a deed I was here on Earth to do. <br />I would have cleaned some people's toilets, <br />If I was asked to. <br />I make clear now those choices, <br />From which I choose. <br /> <br />Today, <br />If some of those same people... <br />Were to invite me to a dinner party as their main guest, <br />To sit at the head of the table. <br />I would not accept. <br />Not because I didn't care for them as people, <br />Which just might be the case. <br />I wouldn't accept because of the menu. <br />OR if I did not personally know the chef. <br />Since I have acquired my own satisfying taste. <br /> <br />How can I recognize times have changed, <br />And so have I? <br />I had been the kind of person that thought, <br />Being of service to my fellowmen... <br />Was a duty and a deed I was here on Earth to do. <br />I would have cleaned some people's toilets, <br />If I was asked to. <br />And I 'still' might consider such a task. <br />Depending upon who it is that may ask. <br /> <br />But, <br />As my own preference would have it... <br />I'd rather take a city bus. <br />Than to be chauffeured around in a limousine. <br /> <br />And... <br />So glad I am, <br />To have remained to keep my own standards I value... <br />Available and within my grasp. <br />And not think myself out of touch or reach, <br />From the people I most adore and respect. <br />Or think I am above those lessons I learn to keep. <br />And from them whom to me I receive realities... <br />I do not have to solicit, <br />Since they frequently on a daily basis teach. <br />And for FREE? <br />I can not beat that. <br /> <br />These are standards I value. <br />To keep me focused and my mind intact.<br /><br />Lawrence S. Pertillar<br /><br />http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/standards-i-value/