http://instantinfatuation.com/ <br />Get immediate access to "Instant Infatuation Formula" from the Penguin Method. <br />http://instantinfatuation.com/ <br />http://penguinmethod.info/ <br /> <br />Online dating is an amazing tool for meeting men you wouldn't otherwise cross paths with in real life. I always encourage my clients to try online dating if they're looking to meet a great man - or many great men! <br /> <br />The "Rule of Minimal Effort" is a great rule of thumb for women when it comes to dating, both online and in real life. This means... <br /> <br />You want the man to be the initiator when it comes to dating - while you're leaning back in your feminine energy - and this applies to online dating as well. <br /> <br />I wouldn't recommend spending hours actively searching for men online. <br /> <br />You want to put up your profile and a couple of great pictures, and then just see who shows up in your inbox! <br /> <br />This will give you a lot of information about what kind of men you're attracting and who's picking up on your vibe - without any sort of prompting from you. <br /> <br />In my experience - and in the experiences of most of my clients and other women I know - when a woman emails a man first on an online dating site, it usually doesn't "materialize." <br /> <br />The man may respond to your email, and you may even talk on the phone or go out on a date - but from what I've found, the likelihood of it turning into anything more than that is much greater if the man was the first one to initiate contact. <br /> <br />This has been my experience and the experience of most women I know - you get to explore and experiment! You can always try emailing a man first and see what happens. But generally speaking, I'd recommend just responding to whoever shows up. <br /> <br />When you're responding to emails, you want to keep your responses short - two or three lines is ideal. Here's the basic format for how to respond to a man's initial email: <br /> <br />1. The first line should be something about his picture. <br /> <br />This can be as simple as, "I like the blue shirt you're wearing in your photo... " or "Your dog is adorable... " <br /> <br />2. The second line should be something about his profile. <br /> <br />This could be something like, "... and I noticed you like hiking, so do I!" <br /> <br />3. The third line is optional - it can be something along the lines of, "I'm intrigued... " <br /> <br />That's it! Don't say, "Looking forward to talking to you... " or "Hope you have a great day... " - just come up with a couple lines using this format, and sign your name. <br /> <br />This should only take a minute or two for each email you respond to, which will keep you from burning out and losing motivation - since no one wants to spend hours coming up with long paragraph responses for every email you receive. <br /> <br />Get the Instant Infatuation Ebook, Relationship Advice for Women now from Samantha Sanderson. <br />http://instantinfatuation.com/ <br />http://penguinmethod.info/
