For some people the day comes <br />when they have to declare the great Yes <br />or the great No. It's clear at once who has the Yes <br />ready within him; and saying it, <br />he goes from honor to honor, strong in his conviction. <br />He who refuses does not repent. Asked again, <br />he'd still say no. Yet that no-the right no- <br />drags him down all his life.<br /><br />Constantine P. Cavafy<br /><br />http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/che-fece/