why do couples often fight? <br />mostly to convey... <br />'I am the one who is right' <br />its a pleasure to have the last word <br />make sure your voice is heard <br />a barb, a dart, a parting shot, <br />all great fun when the temprature is hot, <br />but do we ever realize, <br />or go with the premise, <br />how does it matter who is right? <br />easier to let the man win, <br />than puncture his king size ego, with a pin <br />in any confrontation <br />offer no aggravation, <br />just nod and say, <br />'you are so right dear' <br />I should talk less, <br />and give you my ear <br />and watch him deflate, <br />the argument abate, <br />goes to show, my dad's advice was so true <br />the wiser one always keeps shut, <br />very difficult, ladies......but <br />try it, its so very true <br />your fights will be scaled down <br />to just a very few.... <br />.some valuable tips from one <br />whos seen thirty two years.... <br />there have been fights and tears, <br />but now, I am among the peers, <br />got the mantra, to conjugal delight, <br />dont aggravate, just keep it light, <br />woman is the wiser of the two, <br />tell that to yourself.... <br />and make do.<br /><br />Arti Chopra<br /><br />http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/guide-to-conjugal-harmony-in-a-lighter-vein/