<p>Bachelor fans, buckle up because the upcoming finale episode of The Bachelor is sure to be a bumpy a ride.</p><br /><p>After a not-so-highly reviewed season, it turns out Arie Luyendyk Jr</a>. saved the best (well, most shocking moment!) for last. A source exclusively revealed to Us Weekly</a> that Arie’s current girlfriend is not the woman he chose on show’s finale!</a></p><br /><p>“Arie had a change of heart,” dished a show insider. “He began to think he’d picked the safer option.” And while a second source told the mag that Arie thought he was making the right decision in Peru, as he “really felt ready for marriage, things changed for him after his proposal.</p><br /><p>Despite being “super happy” in the weeks following their engagement, the insider said that after about two months the 36-year-old realtor began having doubts.</p><br /><p>“He had second thoughts,” the source revealed. “He realized who he really wanted to be with and really loved. He just couldn’t stop thinking about the other woman.”</p><br /><p>Those thoughts ultimately turned into actions as the Bachelor not only ended his engagement to his winner but flew to the runner-up’s hometown to try and win her back.</p><br /><p>“Arie didn’t handle the situation well,” noted the insider. “He wasn’t sympathetic or even very nice,” which “shocked” his then-fiancée. Almost immediately after their split, the former racecar driver was “begging” for his runner-up “to take him back, [which] she did,” as ABC cameras captured it all.</p><br /><p>While Arie and his runner-up are currently together, another insider revealed that “they don’t want to jump into anything,” so they’re taking things slowly.</p><br /><p>Arie hinted at his Bachelor switch-up during the Women Tell All special when he told Chris Harrison on that he definitely has regrets about his Bachelor journey.</p><br /><p>“If I could rewind time and redo things as the Bachelor, I would, honestly,” he admitted. “I know people always say, ‘No regrets.’ But I have regrets.”</p><br /><p>“There’s a huge weight being the Bachelor and making the right choices and not regretting those choices,” he added. “And I think that is something that I struggled with, being logical. But, then again, it’s like, you do have to follow your heart.”</p><br /><p>If only his heart didn’t lead to the heartbreak of another.</p><br /><p> The Bachelor finale airs on Monday, March 5 on ABC at 8 p.m. ET.</p><br /><p>To see a sneak peek at the finale episode, click the video above! </p><br /><p>Who do you think Arie chooses in the end? Sound off in the comments! </p><br /><p>The post Arie Luyendyk Jr. Calls Off Engagement With ‘Bachelor’ Winner To Date Runner-Up</a> appeared first on OK! Magazine</a>.</p><br />
