Refinery29 has a new series that looks at what it is like to be single in your 30's. <br />To kick off their series, they wrote a list of things often said to single women that "need to die in 2019." Their list includes: <br />1. "Are you seeing anybody?" Refinery29 says that this question puts a focus on being single as a negative, right from the beginning. <br />They add, "The next time someone asks it, ask them how their relationship is going..." <br />2. <br />