Mary J. Blige <br />Says She Wants to <br />Date a Wealthy Man The singer might have <br />earned herself millions <br />with her chart-topping career, but she says she wants to <br />find a partner who is even <br />more successful than she is. She says she doesn't <br />want to have to carry <br />her lover financially. Mary J. Blige, BBC Radio 1Xtra As part of their settlement, <br />Blige pays her ex-husband <br />$30,000 a month in spousal support. Regardless, she insists <br />she's "having so much <br />fun" as a single woman. Mary J. Blige, BBC Radio 1Xtra