A lady avoiding eye contact, seems to be afraid to dance with me. <br />When our eyes meet I decide to invite her and she seems to be willing to give it a try.<br /><br />But then, tired of explaining that I can't lead if my partner is moving around by herself, <br />I ask her if she wants me to follow her.<br /><br />She says she's waiting for me to lead her. <br />Annoyed, I tell her that I need her connection for that, not her moving to the music. <br /><br />Angrily we look each other in the eyes. At the point that we're about to quit, she promises to give it a try.<br /><br />I know from experience that this will not be easy. <br />Specially for her, so I decide to be as subtle as possible. <br />And guess what! <br /><br />We started with a cold distant embrace but eventually she melts together with me, resting her head on my cheek. <br /><br />Although I feel pleased, <br />it makes me worry about these few young leaders that have the courage to be different.<br /><br />How will they ever be accepted without a 20+ years of experience? <br />In order to lead her, using the connection she provides, instead of proposing a step and follow her?<br /><br />As teaching that, will only take one lesson and will not provide teachers with and life long income…<br /><br />Sharing the free pleasures of life without depending on money. <br /><br />https://fpww.nl
