After some wonderful dance experiences with 4 travelers from Sidney Australia,<br />an Argentinian lady points out that she would like to dance the last tanda with me.<br />Like the other Argentinians, she seemed to be avoiding me before, but now she seems to be interested in this fun I was having.<br /><br />We connect but then she takes off by herself.<br /><br />She seems to “perceive my spinal movement as an indication to start moving herself,” and decides to tell me how it should be done.<br />I feel disappointed as we could have had a lot of fun, exploring each other's differences.<br /><br />Trying to joke about it, I ask her if this is a free lesson and she seriously confirms it's a gift from her to me and continues telling me what to do, so I change the embrace and invite her to lead me.<br />But she seems to think that I want her to show me how I should be leading her.<br /><br />She seems to perceive our different styles as a mission for her to help me out, rather than an opportunity for learning herself, or at least to enjoy this difference.<br /><br />But as this is just my perception, I am curious what she might have thought about me.<br /><br />“I see a strange guy from the Netherlands, seemingly having a great time dancing tango.”<br />“I point out that I would like to dance the last tanda with him.”<br /><br />“We connect but then he doesn't follow me when I take the initiative to move myself in the way his body was indicating before.”<br /><br />“So I tell him I perceive his spinal movement as an indication to start moving myself and explain how he should position his body.”<br /><br />“He seems to feel disappointed so I explain that I'm offering him a free lesson.”<br />“I tell him it's a gift from me and continue telling him what to do, so he changes the embrace and invites me to show him how he should lead me.”<br />“But then he seems to like my lead that much that he doesn’t want me to stop.”<br /><br />“I feel confirmed once again that it helps being Argentinian in order to know what to do :-D”<br /><br />Sharing the free pleasures of life without depending on money.<br /><br />https://fpww.nl
