Ben Affleck</a> is bolting to the Caribbean for Thanksgiving — and leaving ex Jennifer Garner</a> out in the cold, sources snitched exclusively to RadarOnline.com.<br /><br />While Garner takes their kids — Violet, 13, Seraphina, 10, and Samuel, 7 — to see her sister in chilly Boston, the recently relapsed</a> actor is hightailing it to the Bahamas and sparking fears among pals, insiders dished.<br /><br />In October, troubled Affleck was spotted stumbling outside a party before accompanying a hot blonde to a casino, where a spywitness said he acted “belligerent” near the high-stakes poker tables</a>.<br /><br /></a><br /><br />[ami-related id="1778473" url="https://radaronline.com/photos/ben-affleck-rough-messy-alcohol-relapse/" title="Ben Affleck Spotted Looking Rough In Stained Shirt & Sloppy Sweats After Relapse" target="_blank" thumb="true" showsubt="false" imgsrc="https://i0.heartyhosting.com/radaronline.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Ben-Affleck-Spotted-Looking-Rough-On-Set-After-Relapse-pp.jpg?fit=1100%2C618&ssl=1" format="gallery" flag="" channel="71078" subtitle="Disturbing photos of actor show him so careless that even his shoes were untied!"]<br /><br />Affleck, 47, brushed off the boozy incident</a> by saying, “It happens, it’s a slip, but I’m not going to let it derail me.” And he was soon back on the set of his latest movie, Deep Water.<br /><br />A source snitched to Radar: “Ben has been working hard lately and feels he deserves a break.<br /><br />“Jen’s worried about what he will get up to, but he’s a grown man and he can make his own choices. He’s not her responsibility anymore.”<br /><br />Though the divorced couple remain close for their kids’ sake, the source added: “She doesn’t expect anything from him anymore. She just wants her children to grow up happy and as normally as possible.”<br /><br />[podcast_block]
