Selena Gomez Says She Was a 'Victim to Abuse' in Relationship With Justin Bieber Gomez spoke about her ex-boyfriend in an interview with NPR’s Lulu Garcia-Navarro on Sunday. Selena Gomez, via NPR Selena Gomez, via NPR When asked by Garcia-Navarro if she was referring to emotional abuse, Gomez said, "Yes." Gomez's latest single, “Lose You to Love Me,” <br />speaks about her relationship with Bieber, <br />which ended in March 2018. Selena Gomez, via NPR Selena Gomez, via NPR 'Rare' became Gomez's third album to top the 'Billboard' 200 last week.