Selena Gomez Says Fan <br />Relationships Can Be 'Really Heavy' Gomez would like to have more <br />direct communication with her fans, but she feels it can be overwhelming and <br />has recently decided to take a step back. Selena Gomez, <br />to Apple Music Selena Gomez, <br />to Apple Music Gomez shared some of the key traits she looks for in a <br />romantic partner, saying she wants to date someone <br />who doesn't try to hide their true intentions. She recently revealed that she <br />wants a boyfriend who is "genuine."