Arguing With Your Partner , Could Be a Good Thing:, Here’s How To Do It Right.<br />Is all fair in love and war? .<br />Probably not, but experts say when it comes to arguing with the one you love.<br />honest and open verbal sparring may <br />be beneficial to a healthy relationship.<br />Here's how to <br />argue effectively:.<br />Fight Lovingly.<br />Fighting is never easy, especially if the argument is with someone you care about.<br />Many couples are proud that they never argue with their partners, but experts say that way of thinking is a big mistake.<br />When people avoid ‘fighting,’ they <br />avoid talking. , Jim McNulty, professor of psychology <br />at Florida State University, via CNN.<br />If something’s bothering you. I’d rather know it than not <br />know it so that I can maybe <br />do something about it. , Jim McNulty, professor of psychology <br />at Florida State University, via CNN.<br />Timing is Key.<br />Spats occurring in the heat of the moment can take a toll on your heart.<br />Experts say in trying emotional <br />moments, practice stepping back <br />to take deep breaths.<br />In those moments it’s <br />harder to bite your tongue<br />or think through what you’re <br />saying before you say it. , Jim McNulty, professor of psychology <br />at Florida State University, via CNN.<br />Oftentimes, people regret what they say later on, so try to avoid being in those moments. , Jim McNulty, professor of psychology <br />at Florida State University, via CNN.<br />Nonverbal <br /> Language.<br />A nasty tone of voice is sure to upset your partner, but experts agree, nonverbal messages can be insulting as well.<br />Eye-rolling is one of the worst things you can do. , Jim McNulty, professor of psychology <br />at Florida State University, via CNN.<br />You’re indirectly communicating that the <br />other person’s an idiot. , Jim McNulty, professor of psychology <br />at Florida State University, via CNN
