Ben Affleck Reveals What He Actually Said , to Jennifer Lopez at Grammys.<br />There has been much speculation about what Affleck said to Lopez when they appeared to be upset with each other at the Grammys.<br />In a new 'Hollywood Reporter' profile, Affleck shared what their exchange was actually about.<br />I saw [GRAMMY host Trevor Noah approach] and I was like, 'Oh, God.' They were framing us in this shot, but I didn’t know they were rolling, Ben Affleck, via 'The Hollywood Reporter'.<br />I leaned into her and I was like, <br />'As soon they start rolling, I’m going to slide away from you and leave you sitting next to Trevor.', Ben Affleck, via 'The Hollywood Reporter'.<br />She goes, 'You better <br />f****** not leave.' , Ben Affleck, via 'The Hollywood Reporter'.<br />Affleck asserted that he wasn't <br />bothered by the viral moment.<br />I had a good time at the GRAMMYs. My wife was going, and I thought, 'Well, there’ll be good music. <br />It might be fun, Ben Affleck, via 'The Hollywood Reporter'.<br />The 50-year-old actor also addressed how some people questioned whether he was under the influence of alcohol at the show.<br />I thought, that’s interesting. That raises a whole other thing about whether or not it’s wise to acknowledge addiction because there’s a lot of compassion, but there is still a tremendous stigma, which is often quite inhibiting. , Ben Affleck, via 'The Hollywood Reporter'.<br />When it was pointed out that Affleck <br />has become a walking meme, he said, <br />"At a certain point, I am who I am."