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Woman sets up the 'Hot Mess Express' - a group offering support for struggling mums

2024-05-01 207 Dailymotion

Meet the women who have formed the 'Hot Mess Express' - a community offering a helping hand to mums struggling to stay on top of things.<br /><br />Brittinie Tran, 37, responded to an online callout for women in Piedmont Triad, North Carolina, US, to help a local mum in crisis. <br /><br />She was one of a group who all showed up to help with deep cleaning, laundry, washing dishes, organising rooms, and tidying wardrobes and drawers.<br /><br />The group were so moved by their experience they decided to form a community of like-minded women to help others during their time of need. <br /><br />Dubbed 'Hot Mess Express' (HME), the group became a non-profit - with people free to volunteer whatever time they have.<br /><br />The group respond to callouts from women - often with young children - who need hand with cleaning, tidying, organising and laundry.<br /><br />Mum-of-three Brittinie, who is now president of HME, said the group is based on the proverb "it takes a village to raise a child" - and a desire to help each other out.<br /><br />Brittinie, a stay-at-home mum, from Clemmons, North Carolina, said: "I saw the post asking if anyone could help out the mum with her cleaning.<br /><br />"As a mum-of-three I had been there and I didn't have a village when my children were young, so I could relate to it.<br /><br />"Around eight of us showed up and it was a great group - at least half are still actively involved today.<br /><br />"Its so important because, as a woman and a mother, it can be very isolating.<br /><br />"There's a lot of vulnerability in showing people your mess - that's why in Hot Mess we support and uplift each other with no judgement or shame."<br /><br />Brittinie spotted a post shared on a Facebook group by Jen Hamilton, 33, who became the group's founder.<br /><br />She was asking for local people to volunteer time to help out a struggling single mum with her housework. <br /><br />After their first successful 'rescue mission' in August 2021, they took on more and more 'missions', with the group of volunteers expanding as word got around.<br /><br />Now, Hot Mess Express in Triad completes a 'mission' around once a fortnight.<br /><br />They have a waiting list of more than 60 people seeking help with their homes and the team of volunteers is ever-expanding.<br /><br />But all across the continent, people heard of the concept and have been inspired.<br /><br />Now, since the first, 276 other geographical 'chapters' of HME have sprung up all over the USA.<br /><br />Brittinie, who also runs a podcast, said: "We have created that 'village' to support and uplift each other."

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