The Crisis & Solution:<br />🔥 Where We Go Wrong:<br /><br />"Which school for our kids?" → Fights when one wants Islamic school, another wants "prestige"<br /><br />"Hajj savings vs. new car?" → Resentment builds when priorities clash<br /><br />"Prayer space at home?" → Shock when one spouse never valued it<br /><br />"Halal income standards?" → Explosions when discovering dubious earnings<br /><br />"Family dinner at halal restaurants?" → Arguments when values differ<br /><br />💡 The Prophetic Prevention:<br /><br />Pre-Marriage Vetting:<br />"What’s your 5-year plan for our children’s Islamic education?"<br />"How do you prioritize Hajj vs. worldly expenses?"<br /><br />Monthly Check-Ins: Designate a "Deen meeting" to align goals
