1️⃣ The Fatal Imbalance in Spouse Selection<br />Case 1: "He prays Tahajjud… but yells at waiters" → Where’s the Khushu’?<br /><br />Case 2: "He’s so polite… but doesn’t pray" → Where’s the Taqwa?<br /><br />Quran 49:13: "The noblest are the most pious"—not "the most polite" or "the most strict."<br /><br />2️⃣ The Prophetic Standard<br />Hadith: "If someone proposes with religion and character, marry them." (Tirmidhi)<br /><br />Not: "If they’re religious or well-mannered."<br /><br />3️⃣ The Reality Check for Families<br />To Parents: "Would you let your daughter marry a ‘kind’ man who doesn’t pray?"<br /><br />To Singles: "Would you accept a ‘hijabi’ who backbites?"
