1️⃣ Istikhara: Your Divine GPS<br />What It Is: The Sunnah prayer for guidance (not magic!).<br /><br />How to Do It:<br /><br />Pray 2 rak’ahs (non-obligatory)<br /><br />Recite the Istikhara dua (Bukhari 6382)<br /><br />Pro Tip:<br /><br />Don’t wait for dreams—look for clarity or ease/difficulty in the process.<br /><br />Repeat it as needed, especially before big decisions.<br /><br />2️⃣ Background Checks: Don’t Skip This!<br />Who to Ask:<br /><br />Family: "How does he treat his parents?"<br /><br />Friends: "Is he consistent in his Deen?"<br /><br />Community: "Any red flags in his behavior?"<br /><br />What to Observe:<br /><br />Religious Commitment: Does he pray on time? Fast regularly?<br /><br />Character (Akhlaq): How does he handle stress or anger?<br /><br />Financial Integrity: Halal income? Responsible with money?<br /><br />3️⃣ Patience: Let It Simmer<br />Avoid Rush Decisions: Shaitan loves impulsive marriages.<br /><br />Test Compatibility: Discuss future goals (kids, finances, Deen).<br /><br />Watch for Consistency: True character shows over time.
