Why This Matters in Marriage:<br />1️⃣ Ownership of Mistakes:<br /><br />When a husband makes his own decision (even if wrong), he takes responsibility.<br /><br />If you insist on a choice that fails? He’ll blame you forever.<br /><br />2️⃣ Prophetic Wisdom on Leadership:<br /><br />Islam places men as Qawwam (maintainers) (Quran 4:34) – leadership includes learning through experience.<br /><br />The Prophet ﷺ guided gently but allowed companions to learn through action (e.g., Battle of Uhud).<br /><br />3️⃣ Practical Application:<br /><br />Instead of: "Don’t do that, it’s wrong!"<br /><br />Say: "What do you think is best? I trust your judgment."<br /><br />Result: He reflects deeply before acting.
