Tophy - Match,Chat,Dating

Matching has been very rare. But is cool when it happens

New to this app. I hope I will used this properly and don’t get banned.

Only works with lovense toys and they falsely advertise it as a universal remote that works for 95% percent of Toys. Lies. Tried honeys toy box, satisfyer, nsnovelties, calexotics and We-Vibe Bluetooth toys and none of them would connect. I emailed them and literally said they only support lovense. Interface is crowded unorganized and bulky not user friendly. Buncha bs

Within 2 hour of downloading, I was threatened with blackmail and extortion twice, its pay to call, immediately you start receiving calls from their bots, and when you report the activity the respond with “doesn’t merit any action”

The ai is repetitive to the point it frustrating it needs to be more adaptive

Maybe 1% real people, the rest is all fake I hope the owners of this app loose control of this, and the app closes. Seriously, not worth it at all.

This app does allow you to connect to a widespread variety of people based off compatibility or your own search amongst users. You can unlock features within the chats ( voice,video,etc.) by how frequent both parties are communicating.i like that you can set moments to only an audience of your choice or public. You do get flagged on profile or moments’ pics for things that are not even in appropriate. Toy control is easy to use and you can set duration when playing with someone new. Only downer is that it does not have the option to control multiple toys at once like the lovense app nor have I been able to send a video within a convo by using the camera in chat. You have to do it in your phone camera app then send. Overall not a bad app to connect or play.

Was bribed to being faked as a rapist to send money to a guy i don’t even know if he went through with it I have photos tried to send them with the report but it wouldn’t let me. Also your app is just terrible in general.

I used to love this app! You could post the pictures you wanted, make a post so you can feel like you are actually interacting with people. As a woman who uses this app, I used to get tons of notifications about new people liking or visiting my profile, but as the app updated, I got fewer and fewer interactions. Now it feels like the whole app is dead! I'll go days and sometimes weeks without getting a notification.

I’ve used Tophy for a while, and it used to be a social discovery app: fun, conversational, and balanced. Recently, though, the platform seems to have shifted heavily toward monetized interactions, especially involving sexual content and paid access to chats, calls, and sexual-themed features. The biggest concern is a clear imbalance in how features are enabled by default. Female accounts automatically receive options to charge money for video calls, phone calls, and content, while male accounts do not have the same configuration available. If accurate, this is a gender-based feature limitation, which raises questions around fairness, equality, and potentially discrimination. A platform that serves a diverse community shouldn’t restrict earning or feature access based on gender alone. If the app intends to be adult-content-focused, that should be made extremely clear up front. If the goal is connection, conversation, and meeting new people, then the current structure leans too far into pay-to-interact dynamics and makes the experience inequitable. I hope the developers reconsider this direction. Equal access to monetized features for all users, regardless of gender, would make Tophy feel more ethical, transparent, and enjoyable again. Until then, it’s hard to recommend the app the way I once did.