Meet the sugar baby who prides herself on never paying for anything and makes her boyfriend do all the domestic chores.<br /><br />Tutu Okey, 24, has spoken out proudly about her unconventional relationship- describing her boyfriend as the ''provider and the wife in the relationship''.<br /><br />Her 25-year-old partner, who doesn't want to be named, does the cooking, cleaning and laundry - while Tutu has no full-time job and has never cooked him a meal in their three years together.<br /><br />On top of their unusual division of labour, the pair live 3,600 miles apart and only see each other four times a year.<br /><br />Tutu ensures her man pays for her £1.2k return business class flights when she visits him in Washington DC, USA.<br /><br />Tutu, a content creator and medical graduate, from Harrow, London, said: "I have a man who takes care of me- why wouldn't I be proud of that?<br /><br />"We'll go food shopping together, but I don't do any of the cooking.<br /><br />"He enjoys being in the kitchen but me not so much.<br /><br />"The most I've ever done is cook an egg.<br /><br />"We review finances weekly because we're building a life together. <br /><br />"When I'm in the USA, he's more than happy for me to take his bank card when I need and when I'm in the UK he gives me a monthly allowance- it's the least he can do.<br /><br />"I took my time finding him by not settling down with the first guy who came along and it's fair to say it's paid off."<br /><br />Despite knowing each other since the age of 14 the couple only became an item in October 2021 when they both found themselves single.<br /><br />"It was like something in both of us changed and suddenly we weren't just friends," Tutu said.<br /><br />"We both realised that we have a love here that's deeper than a friendship.<br /><br />"Regardless of the time difference, we were calling at any change we got.<br /><br />"Early on in the relationship, established my requirements for what I was looking for a partner. <br /><br />"I was aware that some men might be intimidated by such honesty, but my boyfriend said it made him even more sure that I was the one for him.<br /><br />"I needed someone who was going to cherish me- not just say they do but prove it.<br /><br />"I'm still figuring out my next career move, so at the moment I'm a 'stay-at-tome girlfriend' and my partner supports that.''<br /><br />Tutu believes her relationship dynamic is due to "being a child of divorce" as it has made her unwilling to compromise.<br /><br />During their time together, her partner has brought her a £250 Telfar bag, a premium gold necklace, numerous pairs of designer trainers, as well as holidays to Miami and New Orleans- he even surprised her with Beyonce concert tickets for her 23rd birthday last year.<br /><br />"When I graduated last year, my mum initially wanted me to get a job as soon as possible but now she respects that I'm still figuring it all out," Tutu said.<br /><br />"But it is my goal to get into the healthcare sector because I've got a passion to help people.<br /><br />"At the moment, I generate my income from content creation and, of course, my man helps me out.
